The love from the parents

Posted on September 11th, 2009 by admin.
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The love from the parents
When we still were babies, a weak cry from us would make the parents nervous, worrying that we were hungry or felt something unfit or just need the care from the parents; a small smile on the face would make the parents be happy for a long while, thinking that the baby was good physically and mentally. When we grew older to start the learning of walk, the parents always were after us, encouraging with words while protecting us from tumble with two hands. I believe that these sweet memories will be in the inner heart of everybody for a whole life. After we went to school, the most worried thing of parents could be our academic results because in china, excellent study means the attendance of key university, getting a good job and the start of a successful life. As we stepped into the society, the parents began to worry about our job, hoped we can get a honourable one because it is well-known that the competition in the Chinese job market is really furious. When we became the adults, the parents were still worried, worrying about our marriage. They would do their best to select a good spouse for you and test his/her moral character by themselves. Then after that, they would hold a great wedding ceremony for you with almost a life savings. The love from the parents is endless and we may not know the parents’ love really until we became parents ourselves. The love will be transferred from generation to generation in the mankind.

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there is no better than here

Posted on September 11th, 2009 by admin.
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Many people believe that they will be happy once they arrive at some specific goal they set for themselves. However, more often than not, once you arrive ” there” you will still feel dissatisfied, and move your ” there” vision to yet another point in the future. By always chasing after another “there,” you are never really appreciating what you already have right “here.” It is important for human beings to keep soberminded about the age-old drive to look beyond the place where you now stand. On one hand, your life is enhanced by your dreams and aspirations. On the other hand, these drives can pull you farther and farther from your enjoyment of your life right now. By learning the lessons of gratitude and abundance, you can bring yourself closer to fulfilling the challenge of living in the present.

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You don’t listen

Posted on September 10th, 2009 by admin.
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Listening — really listening — is hard. It’s normal to want to defend ourselves when we hear something that seems like criticism, so instead of really hearing someone out, we interrupt to explain or excuse ourselves, or we turn inward to prepare our defense. But your partner deserves your active listening. S/he even deserves you to hear the between-the-lines content of daily chit-chat, to suss out his/her dreams and desires when even s/he doesn’t even know exactly what they are. If you can’t listen that way, at least to the person you love, there’s a problem.

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You don’t talk

Posted on September 10th, 2009 by admin.
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Too many people hold their tongues about things that bother or upset them in their relationship, either because they don’t want to hurt their partner, or because they’re trying to win. (See #1 above; example: “If you don’t know why I’m mad, I’m certainly not going to tell you!”) While this might make things easier in the short term, in the long run it gradually erodes the foundation of the relationship away. Little issues grow into bigger and bigger problems — problems that don’t get fixed because your partner is blissfully unaware, or worse, is totally aware of them but thinks they don’t really bother you. Ultimately, keeping quiet reflects a lack of trust — and, as I said that’s the death of a relationship

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You don’t trust

Posted on September 10th, 2009 by admin.
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There are two aspects of trust that are important in relationships. One is trusting your partner enough to know that s/he won’t cheat on you or otherwise hurt you — and to know that he or she trusts you that way, too. The other is trusting them enough to know they won’t leave you or stop loving you no matter what you do or say. The second that level of trust is gone, whether because one of you takes advantage of that trust and does something horrible or because one of you thinks the other has, the relationship is over — even if it takes 10 more years for you to break up.

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You’re playing to win

Posted on September 10th, 2009 by admin.
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One of the deadliest killers of relationships is the competitive urge. I don’t mean competition in the sense that you can’t stand to lose at tennis, I mean the attitude that the relationship itself is a kind of game that you’re tying to win. People in competitive relationships are always looking for an advantage, the upper hand, some edge they can hold over their partner’s head. If you feel that there are things you can’t tell your partner because she or he will use it against you, you’re in a competitive relationship — but not for long.

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A resume of old friend

Posted on September 7th, 2009 by admin.
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My name is James Zhang. I was born in Xuan Cheng City, Anhui Province in October, 1970.In the year of 1993, I graduated from English Department, Wu Hu Teacher’s college (Now belonging to An Hui Normal University). In the same year, I came to work in a key Middle School in Jiangsu Province. I furthered my study in Jiang Su Education College and successfully got my bachelor degree there.

Since I came to work in the our Middle School, I have been teaching English and acting as head teacher for a long period. Creative in my job and strict with my students, I enjoy a high popularity among my students and colleagues. Thanks to my efforts and help of my leaders and colleagues, my ability has been recognized by my working unit and community where I live. In 2008, I worked as an English teacher in the Junior three and made my own contribution to greatest success ever in the history of the school.

In addition to my job, I have been acting as the person in charge of English team in our school. Knowing my responsibility and aiming high, I tried my best to promote the development of English language teaching. I am proud to say that, thanks to the cooperation and teamwork, the English language teaching of our school has reached a new higher level. Besides, I have been active in receiving foreign friends and experts visiting our school. As a result, my oral English was polished and my ability was developed as well.

Last but not least, I would add that my wife set up a factory in 2004.During my spare time, I helped her deal with various kinds of matters in business. In the process, I have got many chances to communicate, negotiate with customers, thus accumulating some communicating skills which will undoubtedly help me in my future job. It is my hope that I can make the best use of my ability and experience in the new career.

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Come back, my love

Posted on September 7th, 2009 by admin.
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I am extremely happy to find that the site of the blog has retuned to normal!
As you might never know how I felt during the past three months, It is something like you love someone ,yet there is a deep gap in between, and no way to reach her.I have a burning desire to keep a record of what ervents are happening to me.

My pent feeling accumulates all the time, which makes me feel uneasy.I want to write down something , I want to express my feeling, and I need a space which belongs totally to me where I can murmur to oneself.

When it is not availabl,I can turn to nowhere to express my feeling ,thoughts,thus many beautiful essays disappeared before they were ever written. What a pity!Provided there were no blocks of the site, I would have produced many high-quality English essays, there is no doubt about that.

I came to realize that Time waits for no one, nor does inspiratioin.Once lost, it will never come back to you. I think there are a lot of things which has the same quality,youth, love, chance, to name just a few.One beautiful sentence which stands out in my memory is “Pick the flower when it is the right season, otherwise, you will only break some branches when the blossom season is over,sighing deeply.So it is advisable to treasure the moment!

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“There” Is No Better than “Here”

Posted on September 6th, 2009 by admin.
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Many people believe that they will be happy once they arrive at some specific goal they set for themselves. However, more often than not, once you arrive ” there” you will still feel dissatisfied, and move your ” there” vision to yet another point in the future. By always chasing after another “there,” you are never really appreciating what you already have right “here.” It is important for human beings to keep soberminded about the age-old drive to look beyond the place where you now stand. On one hand, your life is enhanced by your dreams and aspirations. On the other hand, these drives can pull you farther and farther from your enjoyment of your life right now. By learning the lessons of gratitude and abundance, you can bring yourself closer to fulfilling the challenge of living in the present.

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The female economy: What women want

Posted on September 6th, 2009 by admin.
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Women account for 64% of the $18.4 trillion spent annually on consumer goods around the world. Pretty soon more women will be working in this country than men. Women already control half the wealth in the United States, and they will be responsible for roughly $5 trillion in additional earned income globally over the next five years. Welcome to the dawn of the female economy.
And yet many companies are ignoring, downplaying, or patronizing this fast-growing group of consumers. That’s one of the key findings in a new book by the Boston Consulting Group’s Michael Silverstein and Kate Sayre called Women Want More: How to Capture Your Share of the World’s Largest, Fastest-Growing Market.

Silverstein, a former journalist and close cultural observer whose previous books include Trading Up: The New American Luxury and Treasure Hunt: Inside the Mind of the New Consumer, talked with Fortune about Women Want More, which is based on the findings of a survey of more than 12,000 women in 22 countries. (To take the survey, click here.)

What types of companies are the worst at appealing to women?

The three categories (as ranked by women) in descending order of dissatisfaction are financial services, health care, and consumer durables such as cars, electronics, and appliances. In all three categories, the providers effectively diss women.

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